I think I owe it to all my blogger friends to tell you all what is keeping me away from you guys.
Well firstly there were some fitness video shoots, exciting new projects of fitness, more than normal number of personal trainings. This is a wedding season and everyone- bride and friends want to look their best, more fit, toned and sculpted.
Then the fitness certification was on. This is for aspiring fitness trainers.
All the above is a good news and something positive.
But here comes something negative and disgusting.
You all know I have two sons- Sarthi and Siddharth. Siddharth is now in 10th and going to appear for his CBSE board.
I had two tutors for him- They were a husband wife duo team- Arnold Rose and Edna Rose. Both are crooks. In fact, I had earlier hired Arnold and on his recommendation, I hired his wife for teaching Siddharth Science. The whole year, these crooks kept extracting money from me. They were very inconsistent, irregular, arrogant and unsystematic. But we Indians have been born and brought up with one concept in mind, where we respect our Gurus and Teachers, come what may.
Initially, they showed me rosy pictures- “Your son is brilliant, he is a 90% material, he is a born genius.” I am not denying that he is not but, any parent would of course love to hear all this. There were complaints coming from school but these tutors kept saying, all is good. I don’t need to be worried at all. If I asked Arnold Rose, whether Siddharth was doing his home work, he would say, “I am one of the tutors who knows his job. If a child has not done the work, instead of complaining to the parents every time, I will make him do it in front of me.” There were false promises and hopes all year round.
Then they started being very irregular. Sometime it was their daughter who was not well, sometime there was a death in the family, sometime Arnold had a injury, sometime Edna’s health was not fine, sometime they wanted a break to take the family on an outing and then to top it all, finally they put the blame on Siddharth that he is “not responsible enough” to call them up. I asked them, “did they need an invitation” every time to come and teach. I asked them to give me fixed number of days and time and the answer was, “no we cannot be that organized.” Imagine a teacher saying that. Anyways, I started taking the matter in my hands and would call every morning to check if they had time to spare for my son and would still hear those excuses. I knew, his board exams are near and if these crooks were abandoning my child at the last minute, I as a mother could not do it. I started teaching him myself, only to find out that these cheats had done no work all year round and were now running away at the last minute so that they did not have to face the responsibility.
I am a professional too and know how things work. If I have charged a young girl who is about to get married and given her a hope that on the day of her marriage, these are the changes, that she should see, then I better be responsible for her. I can’t make excuses like -see you ate an ice cream so what can I do? It would be so ethically wrong if I keep charging her for all year and when her wedding date is approaching and I realize that I have failed to deliver the promised result, I just say that I quit the job. This is not how things are suppose to work.
Siddharth is presently studying 16- 18 hours a day. He is showing his sincerity and hard work. He has his pre boards starting on 12th of this month and boards from 4th March. But these crooks, suddenly decided that they do not want to teach him. At this last minute, it is difficult to find another tutor. And I know that these crooks are doing it for money. They must have got some tuition, who would be paying them more money in the last month. Otherwise I see no other reason or fault of my son in this.
And Arnold Rose even had the audacity of telling me that because I am interfering, he would not like to teach my son. I told him that any mother has the right to be concerned about her ward.
Well, with or without Arnold Rose and Edna Rose, Siddharth will fare well. I will make sure of that. He does not need such teachers of such low ethical and moral values. His mother will be there with him through thick or thin. On this blog itself, I will share with you guys his good result.
This article is to tell you friends why I have been away and need to give more time to Siddharth.
It is also to let the whole world know to Beware of such teachers who do not hesitate to play with an innocent child’s future for their own vested interests. They squeeze parents whole year round of their hard earned money, give false hopes and run away from their responsibilities at the last minute. Think before hiring such teachers.
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45 comments:
You should not let those irresponsible tutors escape. They should be taught a lesson.
U concentrate on ur son's studies, with ur determination and guidance he will do well in his exams. I think Sarthi can also help siddharth in his studies.
he'll definitely do well with u by his side!! all the best to him... :)))))
@santoshi. yes Sarthi n also the whole family is supporting him now. I certainly wud not leave such irresponsible people go so easily. I wud make sure that like me no one else gets cheated by them and no other innocent child's future is ever played with.
@ trinaa. thanks for the good wishes
all the very best for both your sons... i am back... and i lost your link for the blog cos i changed my template...
ill add your url now.. glad that i got it back... and do visit my page...
and as for the cheating couple, do you have their photo? how about adding it here in the blog?
I was so happy to see that you posted but then not so happy to read what happened.
Needless to say, these tutors are highly unprofessional. I say, always go with your gut feeling -- if something doesn't seem right it's probably because it ISN'T right.
I have so much faith in you I am sure you'll turn the whole situation around in no time.
Keep us posted on what's happening, if you have some time.
And by the way, awesome on the fitness video shoots and all the work!
Oh, yes, and a very happy 2009, Kiran :-))))
Kiran,
Your absence was very noticeable but never imagined you were undergoing such an ordeal. I suspected though, that something must have been bothering you. Otherwise how would you stay away for so long. I kept checking at regular intervals.
The act of those two masqueraders is highly reprehensible. Unfortunately, everything is measured on monetary terms-including critical health care shamelessly-and ethics is the least of considerations. It must have been a tough time. Take heart. Your faith in your son will do wonders for him. We must make them believe they can, and they certainly will. Hope you will endure and come out trumps.
My sincere wishes.
Sorry to hear that Kiran! I know how traumatic Boards are on their own and on top of that such incidents. Good Luck to S&S :o)
hey m sure ur son is gonna do really well...he has a brilliant mom for inspiration n motivation :)
wishin him all d very best :)
Hi Kiran : All the best to siddhart ! Pray he does really well. With your support he'll shine. Its tragic that people defraud others in the name of education.
@ Chris. Yes sure I will add their pics soon.
Good my friend, you are back. I will take some more time to be back.
@ Agnes. Thanks dear. I need friends like you when my morale is down. You have been my best blog friend. As and when I have time, I shall keep you posted. Siddharth's exams start from tomorrow. These are pre boards.
@ Pushhyarag. Thanks. Every word you wrote, makes sense. Thanks for your good wishes, your advice and to top it all, for being there.
@ Tanvi. You know how these CBSE boards are and such tutors- gosh..if these are called educators, I don't know what this generation will really learn.
@ Mayz. Thanks for the good wishes.
@ Mayz. Thanks for the good wishes.
@ Random Reflections. Thanks for the wishes. Yesterday there was AOL Kirtan and I wanted to go there but now I have postponed everything till after 30th March.
@ Random Reflections. Thanks for the wishes. Yesterday there was AOL Kirtan and I wanted to go there but now I have postponed everything till after 30th March.
u know if any thing happened don't be diheartened it is always for the betterment. wishing siddi best of luck for his preboard
@ Kamal. Yeah hope something good comes out of this. Thanks for your good wishes.
Don't. Oh please don't call those crooks teachers.
And all the best to your son and you. :) I'm sure with a mom as determined as you, he'd shine through.
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Di, I hope Siddarth's exam went well.
I am sorry that you and Siddi had to go through the turmoil.
Is there any way you can give these crooks a bad press - on TV, Blogs, and News?
Your experience lists out the importance of listing out specific responsibilities, pay rates, and time lines on projects. Most importantly, one should do an extensive background check on their employees.
I am positive Siddi will fair well. Good Luck!
@ Nimisha. Thanks for the award and good wishes.
@ Shalu. Siddi's exams are going good. he is confident and studying independently. You think I will let these cheats go so easily? I am already writing about them in every possible media. The whole school and my locality knows their name, number and misdeeds. Thanks for the wishes Shalu.
Hey Kiran,
Wishing the best of luck to Sid.
I am sure that tutors don't really make a difference at the board level unless one is really bad at the subject. I can say this because my French used to suck (50/100 in the pre-boards). I had taken 3 classes from one of the teachers at my school (that is actually a good idea), and scored 90/100 in the boards.
What I want to say is that tutors should be the last resort, and boards aren't as tough as they sound. :)
And yeah, i repeat, school teachers would be better as tutors if possible 'cuz one can be more comfortable with them and they can't be cheats. :)
@ Abhinav. I guess you are right about the school teachers. But as of now Sid is preparing well on his own. Thanks for the wishes and tips.
Very well written :)
Well, with or without Arnold Rose and Edna Rose, Siddharth will fare well I'm sure he will :)
My best wishes are with Sid :)
wow...you really sound pissed..and you have a right to be....hope all ends well and your son gets 95% so you can prove the guy cause he said 90%....GOOD LUCK!
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@ Kido. Thanks for the wishes
@ Achal. I hope it does come true.Thanks
@Myraine .Thanks
Kiran,
I appreciate your concern. This world is full of crooks and cheats. One has to be on toes. I feel so angry that they have sullied the image of teachers. Wish you all the best. A word of caution - Please do not press him too hard.
Take care
PS : I am writing in this space too under the same name.
this is so horrible. such teachers shud b punished. can't u go against them in the consumer law? did siddharth tell u abt how these tutors are not teaching them anything? Thank god that u found them at a very early stage. i wud b praying for siddharth's good results. He will surely excel in the boards
oh ! I am very sure Sidharth will do really well, like everyone has said. You are a great inspiration, so he is really blessed to have you too.
All the best
Take care :-)
@niceguy251 Thanks for the best wishes and kind words.
@ Rahi. Siddharth being very young, could not judge them. Thanks for your wishes and prayers.
@ bhaw. thanks. and i do intend to make him do the YES course after his exams.
good thing u got rid of these stupid teachers lol :)
Personally I am not much of a fan for tuition.... but i am not against it.... but i understand your frustration with such people...... Siddarth will do just fine...u bet....my best wishes for his exams... I also know that you are a great mother....
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Hi, so how was your son's exam? Am sure he must have done well!
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